Break Ups

We've all gone through them. And yea, the reason I'm writing this is because of my recent break up with Ole. (Not using the first letter of their names.) I thought about it for awhile trying to be able to explain it to people who may not have had a break up before. And this is the analogy I came up with.

You're standing in an empty room on a rug on top of wood floors. No sound, no warning, nothing, but next thing ya know, someone runs up from behind and pulls the rug right out from underneath you. You land right on your face and the air you breathe is gone. You feel like someone stabbed you right in the heart and then sucker punched you. Ouch, yea its rough. And with the help of friends (Michaela, Abbi, Allison, Madison, and MANY more!) I found a way out of the pain, but it took awhile.

First of all, I found a song that represented my pain. I chose "The Middle"- Jimmy Eat World. A great song and after reading the lyrics I realized how like me it was. So for like a week it was like my anthem. Then, I found support at all angles. My parents had found out me and Ole were dating and so they could tell it from how bummed I was and supplied me with a weeks worth of ice cream! c: And thirdly, I cried. Yea, I know. Its seems lame to cry over Ole, a weird midget, but when you knew him like I did, it was like trying to pull a dagger out of your heart. It was hard.

But as I have said before, to everything there is a silver lining. And you're probably thinking
    "A silver lining? There's nothing good about a break up! How could she have something???"
Though, somehow, I have. Whenever you break up, its like adding a layer to your armor. Another strength to help you in future relationship. Its more knowledge. So as you can see, break ups are a MAJOR stab, but to everything there is a silver lining. Even on a knife.

-All Things Blogspot
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